Sometimes we come across a story which stuns us through its depiction
of one person’s unusual choice in the midst of great trauma. Jill Kelly is one
of those people, a lady who took on the world’s notion of what defines beauty
in a woman and rewrote it. When life dealt her a hand that immediately began to
steal her
sense of worth and attractiveness, Jill stood tall. As she took
ground, she realized how deeply she wanted to share what she was discovering. And
so began this unforgettable story.
I became aware of this chronicle from a photographer friend
of mine, Adrienne Wall, who studied the work of the world renowned photographer
Sue Bryce. Over the last year or so, Adrienne has kept tabs on Sue and recently
sent me a link to Sue’s website where I came across this account. I’m passing
it on to all of us – women and men. Jill’s choice made room for us all.
For nearly 26 years, Sue Bryce’s work has centered on capturing
the true beauty of women and reflecting it back to them in her photographic endeavors.
Her work is masterful and original, and yet when Sue met Jill Kelly and heard
her narrative, Sue realized this woman had much to teach her that she had not yet
learned about the nature of true beauty which women harbor.
Women have always had a tough go of it when it comes to the
standard society has determined as to what constitutes acceptable beauty in
women. And most difficult of all are those times and circumstances that place a
woman seemingly irreparably beyond any chance of coming close to that standard.
Jill Kelly had such an experience and yet regained a sense of beauty in spite
of the ravages of cancer. Rather than merely talk about how she triumphed, she allowed
Sue Bryce to fashion a photographic exposé of her response to life as a young woman
when the standard said she no longer “qualified” in mind and body to consider
herself beautiful. I believe if you take a few moments to watch this video, she’ll
convince you too that the true beauty of womankind radiates from within, from the
light that fills our eyes, to the love that flows through our hearts and the
way we so generously turn toward sharing with others. I believe you’ll feel yourself
able, if only for a moment, to see beauty not only where it is easy but also in
the more challenging photographic moments Sue Bryce captures. Jill’s husband found
his way as well, thanks to Jill’s choice. He made a space for her, and she created
magic in it. As Kahlil Gibran promised: Beauty
is the light in the heart.
Click
here and scroll down to The Light that
Shines.
The
video is to the right.
If you believe in the power of the human spirit, you have to watch the video. If you believe in yourself and at least one other human being, you have to watch the video. And if you watch the video and don't walk away proud to be alive, you aren't.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this story my love.
I truly appreciate that comment. Beautifully expressed.
DeleteThanks for posting this. I'm currently working on a romance of a woman with cerebral palsy who is struggling with these issues. Really appreciate your posts.
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